Perfection

People have a very odd idea of the “perfect relationship.”
To them, this is how it goes:
Woman, the weaker of the two, is all submissive to the male.
She cooks for him,
Cleans for him,
Supports his every asinine idea, whether its smart or not.
Gives herself to him every night, whether she wants to or not.
Because its “her duty.”
He’s the Master, she’s the Slave.
Let’s examine this shall we.
First: Who says it has to be a male/female relationship?
Two males could form that bond. Two females could form that bond.
And have, many times over.
Just because it does not fit into the norm,
Does not make it any less right,
Or any less loving.
Second: Why does one have to lord over the other?
Women, as a gender, have untold strength all of their own.
Women breath life into unborn young ones, giving of their bodies for nine months to nurture this new vessel for a new soul.
Women are gentler by nature, knowing what to say, when to say it, and how to comfort those whom they adore.
Women can give of themselves, their whole selves, and become a slave to the man they adore, not because they want to be controlled, because they want their man to have their whole heart.
Men are the planets natural providers.
They have an ingrained instinct to care for those weaker than themselves.
They provide,
They protect,
And once you have a man’s heart, there is no giving it back.
Because good men love with their whole hearts, and their whole beings.
As a woman, when you become involved with a man, you become “His.”
Not that you are a piece of meaningless property.
If you are with a good man, you become that man’s most priceless treasure.
The one thing he would lay his life down to protect.
The one thing he holds in regard above all other things.
His life. His love.
So in my opinion, a relationship is not perfect because one is Master over the other.
A relationship is perfect when two people give their whole hearts to each other,
And treat that gift as it should be treated,
With reverence,
Respect,
And above all,
Complete, total love.